If you want your simcha to be the talk of the town, you want everything to be perfect, especially the music. Here are some suggestions to make sure you pick the DJ or the band that will rock your house.
See them live
“See them live, go to an event,” says Kim Oliff of the Menlo Park-based Always r.s.v.p . “A lot of times, a CD or demo tape doesn’t give the full sound, often it’s not as good as the band is.”
You must see the band or DJ you want live at least twice to get a feel for the kind of music they play and the kind of energy they generate.
It’s great if they want to show you a video or give you a CD, but remember videos can be edited and CDs can be polished to perfection.
Can they tailor their music
to your party?
A lot of people say they want their party to be just like so-and-so’s party, but in reality that’s the last thing they want. Even though your sister’s wedding was the best wedding you ever attended, you don’t want your special day to be a carbon copy.
The band or DJ you ultimately select must be flexible enough to make your party unique:
• Can they play that obscure Broadway show tune you and your father have been singing together since you were 4?
• Can they play edited versions of your favorite rap songs that won’t offend your parents?
• Can they throw in a few golden oldies for your father and grandfather?
• Can they switch gears when the food is late or the guests are getting antsy at cocktail hour?
Try to have some idea of what kind of music you’d like them to play at what times, but be willing to listen to suggestions as well, say experts
Involve the guest of honor in the process
Some performers say too many parents hire entertainers without asking their teens and too many brides choose music without consulting the groom.
Their advice: Make sure everyone involved in the process has a say in the party plans and music. If the guests of honor aren’t having any fun, nobody will.
Tell them what you want
Any good party band or DJ wants your party to be the best party.
If your father wants to sing, or your mother does not want to be lifted up on a chair say so. If you like a certain kind of music ask for it. If you think you need remedial dance lessons, say so.
If the DJ can’t or won’t accommodate you, look for another entertainer.